Sabihin mo na kung ano'ng gusto mo kahit ano'y gagawin para lamang sa'yo.

Yummy!!!
*Picture courtesy of my friend Myra... thanks, My!
Home is where every good thing begins.
Sabihin mo na kung ano'ng gusto mo kahit ano'y gagawin para lamang sa'yo.

Yummy!!!
*Picture courtesy of my friend Myra... thanks, My!
Write poetry.
Love Deeply.
Walk barefoot.
Dance with wild abandon.
Cry at the movies.
Live your dreams.
Don't lose faith in God.
Don't grow old. Just grow YOU!
When you give someone your time, you are giving them a portion of your life that you'll never get back.
Your time is your life. That is why the greatest gift you can give to someone is your time.
Relationships take time and effort, and the best way to spell love is T-I-M-E because the essence of love is not what we think or do or provide for others, but how much we give of ourselves.
God is good all the time!
It's my time to shine, my time to fulfill my destiny and to become all that God intends for me to be.
- Annette Aguado
Two Choices
What would you do? You make the choice! Don't look for a punch line; there isn't one! Read it anyway. My question to all of you is: Would you have made the same choice?
At a fund-raising dinner for a school that serves learning disabled children, the father of one of the students delivered a speech that would never be forgotten by all who attended. After extolling the school and its dedicated staff, he offered a question:
"When not interfered with by outside influences, everything nature does is done with perfection. Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn things as other children do. He cannot understand things as other children do. Where is the natural order of things in my son?"
The audience was stilled by the query.
The father continued. "I believe,that when a child like Shay, physically and mentally handicapped comes into the world, an opportunity to realize true human nature presents itself, and it comes, in the way other people treat that child."Then he told the following story:
Shay and his father had walked past a park where some boys Shay knew were playing baseball. Shay asked,"Do you think they'll let me play?" Shay's father knew that most of the boys would not want someone like Shay on their team, but the father also understood that if his son were allowed to play, it would give him a much-needed sense of belonging and some confidence to be accepted by others in spite of his handicaps.
Shay's father approached one of the boys on the field and asked if Shay could play, not expecting much. The boy looked around for guidance and said, "We're losing by six runs and th! e game i s in the eighth inning. I guess he can be on our team and we'll try to put him in to bat in the ninth inning."
Shay struggled over to the team's bench put on a team shirt with a broad smile and his Father had a small tear in his eye and warmth in his heart. The boys saw the father's joy at his son being accepted. In the bottom of the eighth inning, Shay's team scored a few runs but was still behind by three. In the top of the ninth inning, Shay put on a glove and played in the right field. Even though no hits came his way, he was obviously ecstatic just to be in the game and on the field, grinning from ear to ear as his father waved to him from the stands. In the bottom of the ninth inning, Shay's team scored again. Now, with two outs and the bases loaded, the potential winning run was on base and Shay was scheduled to be next at bat.
At this juncture, do they let Shay bat and give away their chance to win the game? Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat. Everyone knew that a hit was all but impossible 'cause Shay didn't even know how to hold the bat properly, much less connect with the ball.
However, as Shay stepped up to the plate, the pitcher, recognizing the other team putting winning aside for this moment in Shay's life, moved in a few steps to lob the ball in softly so Shay could at least be able to make contact. The first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and missed. The pitcher again took a few steps forward to toss the ball softly towards Shay. As the pitch came in, Shay swung at the ball and hit a slow ground ball right back to the pitcher..
The game would now be over, but the pitcher picked up the soft grounder and could have easily thrown the ball to the first baseman. Shay would have been out and that would have been the end of the game.
Instead, the pitcher threw the ball right over the head of the first baseman, out of reach of all team mates. Everyone from the stands and both teams started yelling, "Shay, run to first! Run to first!" Never in his life had Shay ever ran that far but made it to first base. He scampered down the baseline, wide-eyed and startled.
Everyone yelled, "Run to second, run to second!"
Catching his breath, Shay awkwardly ran towards second, gleaming and struggling to make it to second base. By the time Shay rounded towards second base, the right fielder had the ball, the smallest guy on their team, who had a chance to be the hero for his team for the first time. He could have thrown the ball to the second-baseman for the tag, but he understood the pitcher's intentions and he too intentionally threw the ball high and far over the third-baseman's head. Shay ran toward third base deliriously as the runners ahead of him circled the bases toward home.
All were screaming, "Shay, Shay, Shay, all the Way Shay"
Shay reached third base, the opposing shortstop ran to help him and turned him in the direction of third base, and shouted, "Run to third! Shay, run to third" As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams and those watching were on their feet were screaming, "Shay, run home! Shay ran to home, stepped on the plate, and was cheered as the hero who hit the "grand slam" and won the game for his team.
That day, said the father softly with tears now rolling down his face, the boys from both teams helped bring a piece of true love and humanity into this world.
Shay didn't make it to another summer and died that winter, having never forgotten being the hero and making his Father so happy and coming home and seeing his Mother tearfully embrace her little hero of the day!
These are the things my mind conjures when it is pouring outside. Sarap mag-isip!


They were wed this afternoon at Our Lady of Light Parish, Cainta, Rizal. They've been together for more than ten years now! My friend was so radiant, her happiness makes her glow!
Don't lose your health getting wealthy or you'll soon lose your wealth trying to get healthy again.
TGIF!
Friday is my favorite day of the week. It signifies the end of the work week and the start of relaxation and leisure. I don't normally go out on a Friday night but if a friend asks me to, I might consider.
Things I want to do this weekend:
1. I want to watch Sukob. (Opening na ba?) Parang maganda at nakakatakot! I was able to watch Feng Shui and it was scary. Directors/producers should get unknown actors for the ghost roles. It's more effective! And I do believe that the real scary movies are those that you can imagine can happen to yourself.
Let me digress a bit... Don't you just see Maja Salvador everywhere?? I watch her every night in Sa Piling Mo. I was able to catch her MMK Tanan episode. I saw her in another ABS-CBN show. She's everywhere! Don't get me wrong, I find her really good. It's just that, she's overexposed! She's even in this movie Sukob that's why I was reminded of her.
Anyway, I'm really excited with this movie! I hope I won't be disappointed.
2. I'm attending my friend Che's wedding tomorrow. Yey! She's the second one in our barkada to get married. The rest of us are still searching for our partners/figuring if our partner is the one.
I'll digress again... I'm pro live-in. But that doesn't mean I'm anti-marriage, okay? It's just that so many couples whom I know that rushed into marriage are now regretting their actions. Let's take my two friends as example. Jing met Alvin in gradeschool. They're neighbors. They became a couple in sixth grade until college. (Imagine, how many years they became a couple before tying the knot!) They got married before a year into college. Two kids later, they separated. Why? Three years into their marriage, the guy's true colors surfaced. He was lazy and would gamble than support his family. Qualities that he kept very well from Jing when they were just sweethearts. So Jing now met someone who's very responsible and loves her despite the fact that she was someone else's before he met her. She needs to get an annulment before she can fully commit to her current guy.
Now, let's take Che's case. She lived in with Macky for a couple of years. Not because they wanted to try living as husband and wife but because they fell in love and were not in a hurry to get married. Six years later, they're now getting married. Why?? Because they now know that they are meant to stay together forever. Che knows Macky's qualities, good and bad. And vice versa. They're compatible in all aspects of a relationship.
People say that the girl is the losing party in a live-in relationship. Won't the girl lose more if she become stuck in a bad marriage? Or get separated and find a really great guy and can't marry him because she's stuck to a marriage that she can't get annulled?
But hey, there are great marriages and bad live-in set-ups as well. This is my opinion alone. You're entitled to yours.
3. Get my hair cut.
4. Watch The Lake House. And fantasize about Keannu Reeves. He he he
5. Finish reading The Alibi.
Yey! Lapit na uwian :p
Do you know that there are two days in our life that we can do nothing about?
One is "yesterday" and it's gone, while the other is "tomorrow" which is uncertain and might not come at all.
We can only live in today.
Today we can love... work... play... and above all enjoy!
Gandang tanghali, fellow bloggers! Para naman sumaya tayo ngayong magandang Lunes na ito, magkuru-kuro muna tayo :D
Meron bang mga naikuwento sa inyo ang inyong mga magulang o nakatatanda sa pamilya tungkol sa mga sitsit noong panahon nila? Namiss ko kasi bigla ang aking mommy kaya naisip ko iyong mga kuwento niya. Maraming intriga noong panahon nila. Ang iba'y napatunayang totoo; iyong iba nama'y haka-haka pa rin hanggang ngayon. Naniniwala ba kayong...
Meron ba kayong alam na ganitong mga sitsit? Share niyo naman! :D
Minsan gusto ko na ring sumuko sa sobrang bigat ng dala ko. Alam ko naman maliit lang ang mga ito kumpara sa iba riyan pero sa tagal ko na itong dala, nabibigatan na rin ako. Dapat sana may kalyo na ako ngayon nang namanhid na sana ako, ang kaso hindi ganoon e. Imbes kinalyo, nagkasugat, dumugo, natuyo... nang makailang-ulit na. Ngunit sa tuwina'y nagkakaroon ng dahilan para magbukas uli ang pilat at iikot na naman sa ganoong proseso. Nakakasawa!
Mabait naman akong tao, may takot sa Kanya, mapagmahal na kapamilya... pero napapadalas ang mga pagsubok.
Sana konting pahinga naman po.
I posted this in my other blog months ago. I talked to one of our common friends and I realized how much I miss these two. For all the other friends that I lost, good riddance! But these two left such a big dent in my life that I can't help but miss them and wish for time to turn back so I could have done something to save our friendship. Value your friends. You never know if you have a treasure with you. Here goes my sentiments...
I had two friends, let's call them Sweet Ant and Earth. They were both very close to me. We were inseparable. One look, and we know what each other would want to say.
Movies, books, music. We adore the same stuff. We spend time talking on the phone and we see each other every weekend. We would rather go out and have fun than go out with other friends. Our families know the sound of our voices. And we know each others' home numbers except our very own. That's how tight we were.
One mistake and it cost me my blood friends.
I miss them. I haven't talked to them for years. I haven't seen them for the longest time now. I knew from common friends that both are still single but Sweet Ant's thinking of getting married soon. Earth is dating, I was told. I am still happily single and thinking of changing the course of my life soon.
Sometimes I wonder at how stupid I was I let good friends go.
I just wish I'd find friends like them. I miss the "talakan" over the phone till four in the morning; the ancient music that Sweet Ant and I listen to; the telenovelas that Earth talks about every morning; the noisy conversations that others mistook for fights; everything...
When my mom was still alive, she told me that I was wrong in losing them, especially Sweet Ant with whom she's very fond of. I know I was wrong. I didn't nourish the friendship as I should. I made a very big mistake and they never forgave me for it, especially Earth.
Just the other day, my lola asked me why she hasn't seen Sweet Ant. I told her that she's living in a far away place already.
Some friends come into our lives for a reason. They taught me humility. Sweet Ant taught me real music, movies, avaricious reading... passion in all the things I do. Earth taught me how to laugh at problems, being there for a friend, aiming high and yet within reach... simplicity in things that would make me happy.
They taught me that there's an invisible tie binding us to friends and it's very fragile.
I got a knife and nicked it. And lost them in the process...
P.S. I am blogging by email for two days now. I will bloghop and answer comments and tags and links by Friday night. Take care everyone!
